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San Diego’s Cheerleader Bully with Asian Tiger Mom Intensity
Do you ever feel alone in your kinks—like you’re the only one drawn to desires that others might see as strange or unusual? Are you scared of being judged, criticized, or rejected for having fantasies that don’t fit the norm?
Maybe there’s something you’ve been aching to try, but the weight of stigma—or questions about what it might mean for your identity—holds you back. Maybe there’s guilt or shame keeping you from fully living, from feeling free in your body and your desires. Or maybe there are old wounds, sexual traumas that have quietly taken the wheel, steering your journey instead of letting you lead it toward real, euphoric bliss.
And if you’re just beginning to explore this part of yourself—why wait until it becomes a crisis? Why spend thousands on therapy years from now when you could be cultivating safety, trust, and ease in your submissive self today?
As a submissive
You will be more calm. Feel your posture relax as you breathe and give in with trust to Her power.
As a slave
You will feel grounded and useful in serving a higher purpose. Stop thinking, She decides what is best.
As a new you
Will live in alignment with what your priorities are, expressing your authentic self. Have purpose and intention throughout your daily thoughts and actions.
I’ve felt every word of this in my body. BDSM has been the path through which I reclaimed my power from childhood sexual trauma. I know what it’s like to feel frozen, stuck in loops of emotional pain, unsure how to move forward—just trying to outrun the ache.
And yet, here I stand before you to guide you through a transformative journey—one that helps you release the weight of the past and step into a lighter, freer version of yourself through the beauty of servitude.
When the path feels unclear, let me be your light. I’ll walk with you toward a sense of sexual and sensual peace, where ease and joy are possible. And yes, we’ll laugh. We’ll play. Through that silliness, we’ll rewire everything.
Step 1
Complete an application.
Step 2
Follow the booking procedures with my assistant.
Step 3
Serve Mae and be a better version of yourself.
The Adorable Domme, Miss Mae Ling is a San Diego Dominatrix known for her irresistibly sweet yet disarmingly honest approach to life. I believe in savoring every delicious moment and living with playful intention. My joy comes from uncovering the real you—beneath the masks, beyond the noise—connecting with your raw desires and deepest truths. I’m here for the honesty that lingers beneath the surface waiting to be unzipped. And trust me, my sugar-coated charm only makes the deviance taste better.
Your mind is your only cage.
Still your body.
Liberate your thoughts.
Let’s see what is beyond.
“She really knows how to get inside your head and is incredibly sexy and thought provoking.”
“A therapeutic way to absolve yourself and release emotional and mental blockages.”
Awaken Your Senses
You will never be ready, so just do it.
Incall and outcall are entertained in San Diego
| Incall – Miss Mae Ling’s dungeon of choice | Outcall – a place of your choosing |
| Tribute which includes dungeon rental fee, starts at $1200 | Tribute + Outcall fee of $200 |
Unique femdom service opportunities in San Diego
There are endless options on how to make me laugh and please me. Here are a few ideas to indulge with me and possibly with my friends:
- Sun, sand and San Diego – walk behind me at the clothing optional Black’s beach. Beautiful views all around and then there’s you. The weather is just too lovely to not soak up that California sunshine. Hold my umbrella for me as I drink a cold coconut water and you my lemonade in a sippy cup. Be good and perhaps you may even earn the privilege of putting sunblock on me.
- Work up our appetite shopping in La Jolla. A matching set from Hermes and necklace from Chanel to complete the look, would look divine on me. Follow 3 paces behind me, carrying my bags as you follow my feet like a good pet. The leash may not be there, but you feel a tug so deep it makes you whimper guttural yelps of excitement.
- Let’s celebrate at Fetish Gras – in February, we can partake in the festivities of the LGBTQ community and expression through this kinky meets leather Mardi Gras 3 day event. With so many open minded people there, who knows what other holes are open there for pleasure.
- Girls just want to have fun – group sessions are my absolute favorites. I am blessed with many kinky and curious about kink friends. Whether it be baby dommes trying things out or vanilla girlfriends who are shocked about what I do, it’s always a fun time. So many women, what will you do? The answer is whatever we tell you to, duh.
- Aching for something more sensual? Serve alongside my femsub and feel the utter euphoric bliss of surrendering. I’ll make her tease you and have you on edge for as long as it pleases me.
Photos of San Diego Dominatrix Miss Mae Ling
There is one dungeon I rent from located in Miramar, San Diego.
Visiting San Diego? Ask me about which hotels are closest to the dungeon.
When is Miss Mae Ling in San Diego?
San Diego is only but a 2 hour drive from Los Angeles, where I am based out of. I travel to San Diego about 2-3 times a year. It is quite accessible so I may hop down if the desire is boiling deep inside of me. My travel page will give you all the information of where I will be away from Los Angeles. Book early by applying here as spots are limited. Make your first impression count as I am very selective on who I choose to spend my time with. Refer here on how to book a session. Ready to book? Complete your application for me to determine your next steps.