Portland’s Cheerleader Bully with Asian Tiger Mom Intensity

Do you ever feel alone in your kinks—like you’re the only one drawn to desires that others might call strange or unusual?
Are you afraid of being judged, criticized, or rejected for the fantasies that light you up inside?
Maybe there’s something you want to try, but the weight of stigma or fear of what it might mean about your identity holds you back.

You are not alone.

You might be carrying shame, guilt, or even unhealed sexual trauma—roadblocks that keep you from fully embracing your erotic truth. Instead of being in the driver’s seat of your sexual journey, you find yourself navigating around wounds that were never yours to carry.

But what if it didn’t have to be that way?

Whether you are at the beginning of your journey or carrying years of emotional weight, there’s power in claiming your desires now. Why spend thousands on therapy later, when you can start healing through guided surrender—finding peace, permission, and pleasure in your submissive self?

Let’s rewrite the story together.

The Adorable Domme, Miss Mae Ling, is a Portland Dominatrix whose sweetly disarming and open-hearted nature brings out the most delicious truths in others. My life motto? Have fun and savor the finest pleasures this world has to offer. I’m here to peel back the layers, connect with your deepest desires, and uncover the real you—the one that’s been aching to be seen. I chase raw, unfiltered truth. And with my charmingly playful edge, even the twisted feels irresistible.

Your mind is the cage. Melt your body.

See what’s on the other side.

“A therapeutic way to absolve yourself and release emotional and mental blockages.”

Incall and outcall are entertained in Portland

Unique femdom service opportunities in Portland, OR

There are countless ways to delight me and make me laugh. If you’re looking for inspiration, here are a few indulgent ideas to enjoy with me—perhaps even with a friend or two.

• Cuckolding and bi sessions – as an exhibitionist, I absolutely love cuckolding and putting you in your place. My personal bull and I will push your limits and make you question your own sexuality. Open your mouth, have a taste of me off of him.
• Discreet or not-so-discreet public play? Let’s take a stroll down Albina and put on our own little freakshow. You’re staring at the ground, eyes fixed on my feet as I tug your leash. Yet you can feel them—those curious onlookers, their gaze wrapping around you tighter and tighter like a full-body bondage suit made of eyes. Better yet, let’s put on a real show at KinkFest. It is a festival after all.
• Prefer something more subtle?  Let’s dine at Mucca Osteria, Le Pigeon or Nimblefish whilst you wear stockings and panties beneath your clothes, plugged and pulsing under my control while I hold the remote in my perfectly manicured fingers. Let’s see how ‘normal’ you can walk into the restaurant, where you’ll sip my champagne with your meal, legs trembling under the table.
• Wear your diaper and follow Mommy as she goes on a shopping spree at Hawthorne. We’ll go back in time as you regress and I go into a vintage store or unique boutique shops. Be a good little one and maybe I’ll read you a book at Powell Books. If you’re extra good, maybe I’ll change your diaper in a public bathroom.
• The great thing about being in the Pacific Northwest is that, we can go out into nature and nobody will hear you scream. Let’s do a double Domme sessions with Mother Nature as my helping hand. I’ll tie you to a tree and utilize the outdoor spirit to spark my creativity for your demise.
• Let’s make it a party—group sessions are some of my absolute favorites. My circle of friends in Portland shines so incredibly bright. I’ll call on my friends—vanilla, kinky, baby Dommes, other profesional Dommes—to join us. Your task? Make them laugh. Entertain, please, and amuse them all as their laughter sears itself into your memory forever.

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There are one dungeon in Portland that I rent from. Sub Rosa is located in Central Eastside of Portland.

Visiting Portland? Ask me about which hotels are closest to the dungeon.

When is Miss Mae Ling in Portland?

My travel page will give you all the information of where I will be away from Los Angeles. I am in Portland 3-4 times a year. Often in spring, summer and fall. Nothing beats the flowers blooming in Portland in the spring. Summer time is always a banger and I love to see the leaves change colors in the fall. Spots are limited, so be sure to apply early. First impressions matter—I’m highly selective about who I choose to share my time and energy with. Curious about how to begin? Refer here for booking details. Ready to take the next step? Submit your application and my assistant will guide you from there.