New York City’s Female Domination Dating Coach

Do you ever feel like you’re the only one with desires that don’t fit the norm?
Like your kinks are too strange, too taboo, too much?

Maybe you’re afraid of being judged, rejected, or misunderstood for the fantasies that secretly light you up inside.
Maybe there’s a different kind of relationship with power dynamics you truly want—but the fear of stigma, or what it might say about who you are, keeps you silent.

You are not alone.

You are tired of living a double life keeping your kinks separate from your dating life. Tired of paying for sessions with no real connection or intimacy.

But what if it didn’t have to be that way?

What if you could date a dominat woman and have a loving and respectful relationship too.

Only problem is – you don’t know where to find like minded women who are naturally dominant. You can connect with women but you’re never chosen as the romantic partner and get friendzoned. You’re afraid of making a mistake and being a burden. 

Stop wasting your time on strange dating apps and hoping fetlife munches will be better next time. Stop overthinking and second guessing when it comes to dating. Learn how to attract and date dominant women and live the lifestyle NOW. 

Let’s rewrite your love story—together.

Unique Femdom Date Ideas in New York City, New York

There are countless date idea and locations in New York City. Here are my spin on a select few to make them more powerful and thrilling for both individuals. These are but suggestions from my wickedly whimsical mind, but ultimately allow her to take the lead and you’ll be surprised beyond your wildest dreams. Your mind is the only limitation after all – her power knows no ends.

Arte Museum | Multi-sensory art rooms NYC

I do enjoy a lovely art museum but one that includes an all sensory journey in Manhattan – yes, yes, yes. Let her add in her own sensory journey to make it a sensory overload – discreetly of course in public. A butt plug vibrator going off as the music crescendos. A diaper wetting in public, let’s hope those leak gaurds are strong enough. A shock collar or taser every time she is excited with joy. You become a part of the arte – her arte.

Sculpt blindfolded at Unarthodox in Chelsea

That’s right, they make it easy for you already. Both parties blindfolded at the beginning of the experiences and are to create a sculpture without seeing it. Would you be able to scult your Goddess without seeing her beautiful curves – perhaps she’ll allow you to see her with your hands before your start.

Rooftop Mini Golf at Swingers NoMad Manhattan

Nothing like some friendly competition at a playful and flirty game. However, be warned – she may rig the game. And the loser (you) may have to do whatever she says. Play at your own risk.

Candelit Bath House at Aire Ancient Baths New York

Two locations one in the Upper East Side and one in Tribeca – a lovely place for you both to unwind. Free from distractions you can be truly present with one another. A space for her to coyly tease you and you aching and begging to worship.

Date Night at a Dungeon

You know what they say – the more the merrier. What if she were orchestrating a whole group of dominant women to make you squirm and shout. She gives the orders and you ultimately are made to push your limits of serving a bevy of dominant women? You could rent out a room at Pandora’s Box or The Fetish Fortress.

Photos of New York City Dominatrix and Kinky Dating Coach Miss Mae Ling

New York City’s Asian Dominatrix known for my sweetly disarming nature and open-hearted presence—one that draws out the most delicious truths hiding inside you. My life motto is to have fun and savor the finest pleasures – love this world has to offer.

Let’s peel back your layers, to connect with your rawest desires, and to guide you into the version of yourself that’s been quietly aching to be seen. I crave unfiltered truth. And with my playfully twisted charm, even the wildest relationships blosssom into beautiful reality.

Your mind is the cage. Melt your body.
Don’t be afraid She’s waiting on the other side.

When is Miss Mae Ling in New York City?

My travel page will give you all the information of where I will be away from Los Angeles. I am in New York City 1-2 times a year. Your servitude can blossom in spring, heat up in the summer and cozy it up in some bondage for fall.  Availability is limited, so I highly encourage applying immediately. First impressions are everything—I’m intentionally selective with who I allow to devote my time and energy to. Want to know how date dominant women? Watch this video first here. Feeling ready to take the next step? Email my assistant at ladyren(at)missmaeling.com with “FLR” in the subject line and she’ll guide you from there.