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Can’t Wait?
I know you are eager to serve and please me and yet the time cannot go any quicker until you are kneeling before my feet where time itself stops. However, until that time comes, you may fall deeper for me by subscribing to my fan page, binge on my clips. I love seeing binges and your devotion to serving me. Whatever you do, do NOT mention serving me in person on any platform. It goes against the Terms of Service of all platforms and you put me at risk of losing a stream of income by getting my account shut down. Have a burning ache in the pit of your stomach that you just want to satiate with some acknowledgement from me? You may send an email (not through any platform but my actual email) along with tribute attached.
How to Please Your Dominatrix
What makes for a successful session? How should you prepare to best please me? After all, we are here to have fun. So let’s put your best foot forward and get yourself ready to serve me as best as you can. I am literally giving you the ins and outs of how to please a dominatrix because I want you to succeed. There is no half assing servitude, I want the whole ass.
Expectations and Clearing that Mind
Starting with clearing that mind. Are you a well-seasoned and experienced sub? Good for you, but do not come into our session imposing what serving a dominatrix is and expecting me to be your past Dommes. Every new interaction, every new connection deserves a clear and open slate. Arrive with an open mind as to what may happen. Create space in that mind so that I may fill it with my control and power. I will rewire that mind of yours, molding and shaping it to my liking.
If you are reading this, you are well on your way to your best servitude. Get to know me better, by knowing my preferences, kinks, fetishes and quirks. Read everything on my website and the things that I link to on my website. Impress me and know my every rule and desire to best please me.
Shutting Off that Phone
You are a slave to your phone every day. Whilst I enjoy sharing my toys and playing with other Dommes, I find it rude to be interrupted by phones. Nothing else matters. You have an allotted time with me and I intend for you to make the most of it. Put it on airplane mode. No phones are allowed in subspace; you may place it in the bathroom along with anything else that are in your pockets. My pets do not deserve such physical things.
Do Not Disturb
If we are meeting in a hotel room, be sure the do not disturb sign is placed on the door handle. How awkward and rude would it be that housekeeping knocks on the door while you’re bound helpless. Or cuts into our time together as the room is getting cleaned while I arrive.
Arriving on Time
You hear it all the time: do not waste a dominatrix’s time! Which means, do not come late as that will cut into our session time. Depending on how my day is booked, that means you are forfeiting precious time serving me as I will need to honor the next person and end the session on time. Same goes for the contrary, do not come early. I may be wrapping things up with a previous session and it would be awkwardly rude to walk into that. I understand life happens, traffic, helping old ladies cross the street, etc. do let me know ASAP if you are running late and what your estimated time of arrival is.
Food and Water
Eat and be hydrated prior to your session. Do not overdo it to where you are uncomfortable or gassy or messy. But be sure to have energy to partake in rigorous activity. You may be nervous, but coming to me on an empty stomach to where you are unable to do anything or distracted by your own grumbles does not serve me at all. On the contrary, eating a full meal prior to serving me would leave you expending your energy on digesting the heavy meal. I do not enjoy the smell of alcohol, nor do I enjoy being around those who are inebriated. I want to see you under my complete control and not from something else.
Be sure to eat something of actual sustenance, not like a donut or cum or whatever it is on the bottom of a dominatrix’s shoe.
Protocols for Meals – Dinner and Domination
When ordering, I will always order my meal first. If you are lucky enough I may even take the menu away from you and order for you as well. Alcohol is not to be consumed in my presence as I do not like the smell or the habit. You are allowed to eat after I eat first. Further protocols may be added as our relationship deepens. At the beginning stages of getting to know me, you will sit across from me for meals. Further along in our relationship, you may be allowed to sit to my right.
What to Wear
I will be meeting you first in a public space, so wear something that does not offend the general public and is a good reflection of myself. Yes, I will be seen with you in public. Do not embarrass me with horrid fashion choices. Unless you have been given further instructions on what to wear discreetly, underneath your everyday wear – you may wear clean civilian clothing. No stains, sweat marks, etc. I want a clean canvas.
What to do With What You Wear
Not that you will be wearing it for long as you will be a blank canvas before me. As such, you will be required to fold your clothes neatly and put away. Never had to fold your clothes before? Learn before you come to see me. I want to see corners and creases, something proper, presentable and acceptable for my eyes. Always wanted to be a service sub, maid or butler? This is a necessary skill and life skill that everyone should have. You may refer to this page to see my expectations.
Things to Bring
A first impression makes an impact. Show me that chivalry is not dead. Be courteous, be generous and be kind. Bring me a gift, one of my love languages and I will speak to you in my other – spending quality time. Lucky for you there is no guessing involved as I’ve made it easy for you and created a whole page on it here. No, it does not have to be over the top or something that will destroy your bank account (although it would definitely make me smile). But, little tokens that show your consideration seduce me. It can be fruits, flowers, a kinky toy, clothing (100% cotton unless it is fetish wear), jewelry or some weird thing that you’d think I’d laugh at.
You are required to bring a bottle of coconut water (Harmless Harvest is my favorite brand or anything low in sugar) and two bottles of water. Make sure you have the bottle of coconut water in your hand when you arrive so I know who you are.
In addition to gifts, if there is a specific thing you’d like to play with or an outfit you would like me to wear, you may bring it as a gift. If it is your deep fetish, your desire I should like to see your passion for sharing it with me. Seeing how easily controlled you are by it, fuels me with more power.
If there are things that you like to partake in, specific items that you like to play with such as but not limited to: diapers, panties, chastity, latex, leather, dresses, pantyhose, wigs, impact toys, dildos, etc please bring these items yourself. As a professional dominatrix, I of course will have my own toys, but bear in mind, I do not carry every size and brand imaginable that would fit you, so if you are a sissy or like diapers or latex or into feminization or anything else uniquely specific like a plastic bag to go over your head – bring your own.
You will also be bringing an over the counter at home Covid test (preferably Binax or QuickVue). These can be picked up at any drugstore (CVS or Walgreens).
Covid
Better safe than sorry. Let’s keep us all safe and sane in this weird time so that we can keep doing weird things. Honestly it would make us all more comfortable having that peace of mind knowing that we are negative. To truly ensure yourself that you will see my adorable smile, bring an over the counter at home Covid test. There are two in one box, both you and I will take one at the beginning of the session. The wait for a result is only 15 minutes which is nothing for a timeless experience serving me.
Hygiene
Clean yourself! Hygiene is very important. Yes, some of you may worship my sweat and smell but do be mindful that I do not like to be in the presence of yours. This includes taking a shower, ensuring your nails are clean, wearing clean clothes. Arrive cleanly so that I may soil you myself. Keep in mind that even though you may not be planning to have your clothing soiled, things may get dirtier than anticipated or completely trashed and torn off of your body; be sure to have something else or walk the walk of shame.
Brush your teeth. If you find yourself lucky enough to breathe the same air as me, note that I prefer to breathe the air and not what you ate nor bad breath. Intoxication of smell can work both ways and I deserve the best air quality there is.
Cleaning that bum hole. Sure you can wipe your butt, but did you do a deep cleaning? This page here will walk you through how to properly cleanse yourself from the inside out. If you want a dominatrix to play with a toy, give them a clean toy to play with.
Tribute
Tribute is to be in cash. Sure you sent the deposit electronically, but I prefer the rest of the tribute in cash. Be sure to bring the complete tribute minus the deposit in a white envelope, sissies use a pink envelope. The envelope is to be left unsealed. I prefer tribute to be in the highest denominator, aka hundreds and all facing the same way. Which means, take care of this early on and not stopping by an ATM right before you see me and getting a bunch of twenties. Yes, I like fat stacks, but one makes me feel luxurious and the other makes me feel what you are to feel when you suck dick for me. Got that stack in an envelope? Place that tribute on the bathroom sink and wash your filthy hands. Bonus points if you tip prior to the session even starting.
Tipping
Tip your dominatrix, aka me! Yes, you’ve paid my rate, but as for any service you receive – you tip. You may climb up the ladder and rank of subs by tipping me as well. Tipping me shows me that you are invested in my happiness, well-being and self-care. Tipping me prior to the session is bound to make it a good time, putting me in a happy and excited mood, which could be dangerous for you, my pet.
We all know that the drop after a session can be intense and very raw. Tipping me allows for a softer day where I can go to the spa, get a massage or buy time away from work and the hustle. Even something small that pays for my nutritious meal is appreciated. Tips can be given with the tribute at the beginning of the session in the envelope, directly after the session, or anytime electronically via my payment methods.
Protocols for Interactions
When you first meet Miss Mae Ling, you will join your palms together in front of your chest and bow with respect. Your two hands form a flower, a lotus bud offering. At this time you may utter my complete full name Miss Mae Ling and subsequently Miss Mae. I will always take the lead: only talk if I prompt you with a topic; eat only after I begin to eat; only leave after I leave (unless you were pardoned by me). You must arrive early for a commitment such as a meal – slaves always arrive first and on time for sessions. It is important to remember that you should never touch me and only kiss my hand or feet if I offer it.
Upon departure, after you have all of your items in order and prior to your leaving: you will get down on both knees and wait for Miss Mae Ling to offer a hug and or my feet so that you may plant one kiss on each foot where you will thank me afterwards.
Negotiations
I have read what you have written in the application, however I will still reserve time at the beginning of the session to ask you a few questions. What you wrote then, was in that very moment. Perhaps by the time that you are before me, you may feel different and would like to change your experience to something contrasting. People’s moods change everyday and that’s okay, communicate with me so that I may adjust the scene accordingly. Now is a good time to reiterate your boundaries. Did you think further about things you absolutely do not want to try? As I love to play with pushing those boundaries as that is where growth is seen.
Aftercare
Aftercare is included in the allotted time that we share together. I will reserve some time at the end to provide you with a soft landing back to a new norm. Some people take longer than others to recover from a session, notify me at the time of negotiations prior to the session if you are one who needs more time to reassemble yourself. Aftercare is something that should not be rushed, but if there is another sub coming in after you or the dungeon rental time is up, I need to respect the time and get ready for the next sub or respect the dungeon’s rules and booking protocols.
Follow Up
The day after our session, I will personally send you an email to follow up with you. Check your spam folder for something from mae(@)missmaeling.com. One day later may be too soon to form thoughts or process what has happened – take your time, you do not need to respond immediately. In it, there will be a link to help me with my Domme drop by leaving me a review and a comments section for any thank you notes you’d like to say.