You might have wondered, what is in a woman’s purse and why is it so heavy? Well, here is a hotter question: what is in your Mistress’s play bag? I can’t speak for other Dommes, but I will give you an exclusive sneak peek into my sensational luggage. The very same filthy bag that I haul around on all of my travels, packing away other people’s dirty secrets. As an internationally touring Mistress, these are my go to, must have items that have been a staple and earned their keep.
- Dildos – This Mistress must have her dong, and in various sizes of course. 3 to be exact: small, medium and large. I love pegging and stretching out others no matter where they are in their stretching journey, and I’ll be prepared with my many dongs. After all, I feel as though it is a huge part of my sexual identity to be able to be fluid and interchange as I desire.
2. Strap-on Harness – Attached to the dildos would be my strap-on harness. A dildo is just a dildo, until it is attached to my strap-on and I am looking down at my submissive, drooling in between my legs begging to be used as my cock sleeve.
3. Lube – one of the many flaws in the human male design is the inability to create a substantial amount of lubricant to prepare them for the ecstasy that is to come. Lucky for you, not only am I a gushingly wet Mistress, but also carry extra with me.
4. Gloves – My mind is dirty for sure, but it does not mean I like to be covered in other people’s filth. There is nothing hotter than the snapping of the cuff of the gloves as a Mistress puts on a protective layer. Symbolizing that the submissive is the dirty one and will not have access to feeling the divine feminine soft skin, whilst she can poke and prod as she pleases with her toy.
5. Riding crop – A classic Mistress staple. An iconic piece to be used as an extension of my hand to tantalize or bring pain. Better yet, both creating the tantalizing pain that a submissive will endure for my pleasure. A symbol of authority and power, a training tool that is simple yet instills fear and excitement within all who see it held in her perfectly manicured hands.
6. Collar – A piece that symbolizes the ultimate power exchange between Mistress and submissive. Worn around the neck, a firm choke, making you conscious of your breath reminding the submissive of who is truly in control at all times and how lucky you truly are to be fully alive at your Mistress’s feet. The one piece that gives hope to one day earning their own unique collar as her pet.
7. Leash – what is a pet without its owner? Something that quite literally connects a submissive to its Mistress. Follow her every step, tune into her directionality and guidance as she takes you for a walk out of the darkness and into the light. Be a good pet and maybe you will earn some deliciously delectable treats.
8. Flogger – Another classic sensational piece. Whilst there are many floggers out there, they all fall under the same category with the ability to emit sensations over a wider surface area. Depending on the Mistress and how she uses it, as is with every single thing she wields,it can be a drastically hot tease or a reminder of the pain that will bring you to your knees.
9. Vibrator – Good pets have earned their treats. However, do not be fooled by the classic thinking of such yummy treats. A Mistress can very well use treats, such as a vibrator, to create even more pain than your body could have possibly imagined while also leaving you writhing in pleasure with tingles shooting from the base of your spine up to your brain and ending with a mind blowing orgasm.
10. Fiber – As the Duke of Dookies and Duchess of Ovens, traveling/touring can throw a Mistress’s bowel movements out of her control. I have found that taking fiber supplements has helped regulate the timing, allowing those who worship at my brown bubble bottom temple to feel exalted in the delight that is most relieving for a Mistress.
11. Speaker – A Mistress loves to control everything. From the things you are allowed to see, to the words she whispers into your ears, to the music that creates and shapes the container in which all of this is held in. Drown out the rest of the world and focus on your Mistress and the breath she utters. There is nothing else that matters, her pleasure is your priority now.
Things change in and out of my bag all of the time depending on the type of session I am doing, but these are the ones that stay in no matter what. Ultimately, I do not even need any of these toys or items as I can be creative with finding alternative things to use. I am a Mistress after all and pave my own way, following no one. Not the image that the media and society has shined light upon of what a Mistress should be. Once you understand the psychology of it all and have played the games by the rules, it’s time to rig it, twisting things to fit your version for your own ultimate fun as a Mistress where the odds are always in your favor.
As with any wardrobe, building it out depends vastly on where you purchase from. Different shops will give you different styles and various inspiration for your own twist on things. All of the shops I am about to list have an online store and can ship almost anywhere. Stockroom is a Los Angeles classic with a wide variety of items to select from and beautiful inspirational images splayed out in their catalog. Oxy Shop has a wide range of things with various price points. An added freebie is that their website includes how to use certain toys, how to measure for toys, games and highlighting Mistress’s favorite ways to play. Mr. S Leather is geared towards the gay community, which as a bonus their gear is made for heavy duty play. The quality and sturdiness of their toys will have your lips puckering and drooling.
Just as a magician never reveals their secrets, this Mistress may have revealed the inside of my play bag, but I’ve got you looking at exactly where I want you to. Feel the magical experience of submitting to me, apply here to book your session serving Mae.